“Want to help a person? See it through their eyes without judgement. Feel what they feel. Perceive what they perceive. But do not lose your separateness in the process.
Listen what happens from within and accept it. See it for what it is. Then you will not act. Phonies are easily seen.
Accept them, without trying to change them. That is when, paradoxically, as stated by Carl Rogers, the change happens.”