“They always needed to give me more than I give them for me to have a transient moment of believing they love me. Is it only because of how I was brought up? How much a person can love if he or she has been in the center of mother's existence? That dynamic cannot be without consequences. That love is not real love. That love comes from mother not having lived her life. For the inability to separate from child mother will employ many different manipulative strategies. The child will need to find a way to destroy the demon. Leaving and living completely independent solves it. They do not have a leverage now.”